Our influence is surely felt in our respective families.
Sometimes we fathers forget that once we, too, were boys,
and boys at times can be vexing to parents. I recall
how much, as a youngster, I liked dogs. One day I took
my wagon and placed a wooden orange crate in it and went
looking for dogs. At that time dogs were everywhere to be
found: at school,walking along the sidewalks, or exploring
vacant lots, of which there were many. As I would find a
dog and capture it, I placed it in the crate, took
it home, locked it in the coal shed, and turned the latch
on the door. That day I think I brought home six dogs of
varying sizes and made them my prisoners after this
fashion. I had no idea what I would do with all
those dogs, so I didn't reveal my deed to anyone.
Dad came home from work and, as was his custom,
took the coal bucket and went to the coal shed
to fill it. Can you imagine his shock and utter
consternation as he opened the door and immediately
faced six dogs, all attempting to escape at once?
As I recall, Dad flushed a little bit, and then
he calmed down and quietly told me, "Tommy, coal
sheds are for coal. Other people's dogs rightfully
belong to them." By observing him, I learned a
lesson in patience and calmness. It is a good
thing I did, for a similar event occurred in my life
with our youngest son, Clark. Clark has always liked
animals, birds, reptiles - anything that is alive.
Sometimes that resulted in a little chaos in our home.
One day in his boyhood he came home from Provo Canyon
with a water snake, which he named Herman. Right off
the bat Herman got lost. Sister Monson found him in
the silverware drawer. Water snakes have a way of
being where you least expect them. Well, Clark moved
Herman to the bathtub, put a plug in the drain,
put a little water in, and had a sign taped to the back
of the tub which read, "Don't use this tub. It belongs
to Herman." So we had to use the other bathroom while
Herman occupied that sequestered place. But then one
day, to our amazement, Herman disappeared. His name should
have been Houdini. He was gone! So the next day
Sister Monson cleaned up the tub and prepared it for normal use.
Several days went by. One evening I decided it was time to take
a leisurely bath; so I filled the tub with a lot of warm water,
and then I peacefully lay down in the tub for a few moments of
relaxation. I was lying there just pondering, when the soapy
water reached the level of the overflow drain and began to flow
through it. Can you imagine my surprise when, with my eyes
focused on that drain, Herman came swimming out, right for my
face? I yelled out to my wife, "Frances! Here comes Herman!"
Well, Herman was captured again, put in a foolproof box, and
we made a little excursion to Vivian Park in Provo Canyon and
there released Herman into the beautiful waters of the South
Fork Creek. Herman was never again to be seen by us.
-Thomas S. Monson
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
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Thomas S. Monson Teachings
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